Stop Dimming Your Light
Aug 25, 2025

Hey Folks!
Even if today feels dim, remember this: your light was given to you for a reason, and the world is waiting for it.
I’ve noticed, and maybe you have too, how easy it is to dim ourselves just to make others comfortable. Maybe you’ve stayed quiet in a meeting, tucked away a dream, or softened who you are because you didn’t want to stand out “too much.” I’ve been there too.
But here’s the truth: every time we dim our light, we not only hold ourselves back, We keep others from seeing the gift we were created to bring.
The Lesson About Light
Your light isn’t an accident. It was placed inside of you with purpose. And when you allow yourself to walk fully in it, you give others permission to step into theirs too. Sometimes, your courage to shine is the very spark someone else needs to step out of their own shadows.
I’ve had seasons where I thought, “Maybe I should stay quiet. Maybe my dreams are too big. Maybe this isn’t my place.” But every time I hid, I felt smaller, disconnected from who I was meant to be. And every time I chose to stand boldly in my home, in my work, or on a stage, I saw the ripple it created. Someone else found the courage to say, “If she can, then I can too.”
That’s the power of light.
How to Keep Shining
Here are five truths I hold onto when I feel tempted to dim my light, and maybe they’ll help you too:
Own your space. You belong in every room you walk into.
Speak boldly. Your voice matters, don’t shrink it.
Reconnect with purpose. Remember why you’re here and who you’re meant to serve.
Take one brave step. Shine in small ways until it feels natural again.
Surround yourself with light. The right people will never be threatened by your shine, they’ll be inspired.
My Message to You
If you’re reading this and you’ve been holding back, hear me clearly: your light is not “too much.” It’s exactly what this world needs. Don’t dim it for anyone.
Walk fully in who you are. Speak with conviction. Love without limits. And dream without apology. Someone out there is waiting to see your light so they can believe in their own.
So here’s my reminder: You got this. Keep going. Keep glowing. The world is brighter because of you.
Your Turn
If this spoke to you, share it with someone who may be dimming their light right now. And if you’re ready for more encouragement, join me on Inside the Shield with Pro Football Moms, where we talk about real life, real struggles, and the courage to keep shining no matter what.
Because together, we rise, and we shine. 💜